We are a Happy Family

We are a Happy Family

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Curtis' MBA Graduation!!! Woot woot!!!

We've been looking forward to Curtis' graduation for a long time now.  It was held on Sunday June 8, 2014 at Kodak Hall at the Eastman Theatre. It was a really stunning and beautiful building where they hold all of the prestigious music concerts in Rochester. Curtis' parents were able to come out and Heather Howell (a very sweet lady in our ward), offered to watch Kaden all morning so we could attend without him distracting us, and actually enjoy it.

 Curtis walking to get his diploma
 Curtis is getting his master's hood on the right
 This was such a tender moment between Curtis and his mom. She was just so overwhelmingly proud of him.
It was so fun to have Marv and Dana join us for Curtis' graduation to celebrate together
 Shubham Sharma was one of our dear friends here in Rochester. We cherished the times he came to dinner at our house, taught us how to cook really good Indian food, hung out with us and played with Kaden. We were invited to his wedding in May in India and were so sad we couldn't afford to go.  (Thus is the life of living on student loans as a family…) He is a friend that will certainly be missed.

The Bertassos.  The only LDS family in the MBA program besides us. Our neighbors 4 doors down. The people we borrowed sugar,  and eggs from. The people that watched Kaden at the last minute, drop of a hat. Jessica cut our hair, listened to my problems, had Bachelor nights with me and the other Elmwood Terrace Girls. I took their kids' pictures. Decker was in my Sunbeam class.  Kaden loved to play with Decker and Tueller and loved Jess. (He was always saying, "Jess. Pretty.")  They were our friends, at times our sanity, and the kind of friends that became like family. Saying goodbye to them was by far the hardest of all of the MBA friends. They made our experience in Rochester one that I will cherish.  They are off to Tennesee. We will really miss them!

The Simon Fellows: Dominic Rasini, Matt Peckham, Obiamaka Eke, Nicole Camarre, Curtis, Charles Johnson, and Jeremy Ho (not pictured, Bernard Mascarenas).  (I couldn't fit the whole shot in one picture, so you get Curtis and Nicole twice. Ha!)


An MS student Curtis had never met, Obiamaka Eke, Benson Waweru, Curtis

Mauricio Leyva was one of the first people we met here at Simon before Curtis even enrolled. He was at Scholarship Weekend and he was a really fun and a good friend to Curtis.

Yang Chen was in one of Curtis' groups and he helped her a lot with learning how to use Excel and her job search.


Ana Gonzales, Curtis, Ankit Agrawal, Roma Sawhney, and Gagandeep Khangura. Curtis was on a few teams with Ana, Roma and Gagan.  There were three Indians and Curtis in one of the groups and Curtis called the team, "Quarter White."  It's safe to say that Curtis was one of the few white, Americans in his class. It was a very diverse business class, which was really fun because we learned a lot about different cultures and met a lot of people from all over the globe.
 Kaden joined us for the after-graduation reception and ate probably 20 cookies in a row. They were right at his level and he just kept grabbing them when we were talking to people. That was literally his lunch that day since he fell asleep on the way home and then went right down for a nap. Ha ha. Blue ribbon for awesome parenting!


I was literally pulling the cookie out of Kaden's mouth to get one picture where he wasn't eating a cookie, ha ha!

It was such an emotional/bittersweet day for us as we enjoyed celebrating Curtis' accomplishments of receiving his MBA (and graduated in the top 20% of his class), but also realized that this was really it, we were done in Rochester and an important chapter of our lives was about to close. We have made some really wonderful friends in Rochester that have been like family to us.  I have learned more in the time in Rochester about myself, about each other, our goals for our family, as a couple, etc… than I felt like we had previously learned in the other years of our marriage.  Rochester has been a challenging place for us to be, but a blessing nonetheless. I will miss it so much!

Elmwood Terrace Farewell Dinner

On June 1 we had our Elmwood Terrace Farewell dinner at the Torres' house. We've become such a tight-knit group during our time in Rochester with the Bertassos, Harts, and Torres'.  We all come from different backgrounds, but besides the church, we were united and bonded in a way that I can't explain.
 

Tueller and Kaden

 Kristi, Jess and Angie will always be some of my best friends when I look back on my time in Rochester. Their friendship means the world to me and our families all survived school, residency, the most horrible Rochester winter on record, and a crazy ward together. We have done so much together over the years, from celebrating holidays together to baby-sitting swaps, Bachelor nights, playdates, borrowing sugar and eggs and everything in between.  I have talked with, laughed with and cried with these girls and I know that they've always got my back. We are all headed to such different places- the Bertassos to Tennessee, the Harts to Vegas, us to Utah, the Torres' are moving to Fairport, NY- but I truly hope I can keep in touch with these girls and their wonderful families.   I have been so blessed to have good friends here in Rochester. I will miss them all dearly!

Memorial Day

For Memorial Day we went to Letchworth State Park with Dave and Kristi Hart and their boys, Noah and Everett.  They have become some of our really good friends in Rochester that I have been so grateful for.  They were the first people we met when we got here.  We've watched their boys overnight while they've gone on trips and they've done the same for us, as well as a million other babysitting swaps in between. Kristi and I would go to gym classes at the Y together, to music class and playdates in general. They are our favorite friends for game nights and Curtis and Dave were avid biking/rock climbing buddies. We are going to miss them so much when we move. I can't even think about it really or it makes me sad. 

We wanted to get in as much time with them as we could before we moved, so we invited them to join us at Letchworth for the afternoon/evening.  We headed there because there was a balloon festival where they were going to launch a few hundred hot air balloons at the same time.  We were so excited to see it! Plus, I love Letchworth. It's one of my favorite places in Rochester and we wanted to visit there one more time before we moved.  



Kaden absolutely loves Noah and thinks he's so funny. He is always super entertained by him.  Here Noah was being a dancing robot for Kaden and Kaden just sat and squealed with delight and giggled.

We hiked around a bit while we waited for the balloon launch. When it got closer to it, we re-read the website to find out where we needed to go and realized that they only did the 6 pm launch on the Saturday before. Memorial Day only had 1 balloon launch and it was at 6 am. Ha ha! Joke's on us huh? I was bummed that I'd misread the time, but we still had fun regardless.   We hiked around a little bit more until the boys got restless and then we were able to find a slide and the boys had a blast playing on that for several hours.




We ate at a super ghetto, greasy pizza joint that night in a tiny town on the way home. We loved it all and had such a blast with the Harts. They have been such a blessing to have as friends and neighbors in our ghetto little Elmwood Terrace land. 

Family Photo Shoot

I've seen a lot of pictures lately on the web of family pictures that are taken in the master bedroom, capturing a blend of candid shots with personality and lifestyle photography.  Obviously this intrigued the photographer in me and I wanted to give it a try with our family to get some more casual, fun pictures that capture us in our own element.  I pulled out the tripod, the camera and the remote and set things up the way I wanted them and let Mr. Kaden take over. He was fascinated by pushing the remote button and the beeping that came with the remote timer on the camera, so he sat still and smiled and thought it was the greatest thing ever. 

For such a wiggly boy, these shots were priceless to me because he is so smiley and has such a fun, sweet personality, but I rarely feel like I can actually capture it on camera since he's usually too busy playing to pause and smile for Mommy.  Since Sunday morning before our 1 pm church is usually a more laid back time of the week, I decided to take the pictures then, while we were in our church clothes, but not all the way dressed up.  (No ties, no shoes, etc…) I'm really thrilled with how they turned out because they capture my sweet boy and the joy that he brings us in a way I can't describe with words.  His little smile warms my heart and makes me happier than I can say.

Speaking of happy, Kaden absolutely LOVES the Pharrell Williams song, "Happy," and is constantly singing it, clapping along to it anytime we're in the car and it comes on the radio, and asking me to play the "happy show" (music video) on my phone on YouTube.  He started out the photo shoot with his happy clapping. I had to capture it because it's such a big part of life right now. :)


 This is so silly but Kaden loves to do this. Anytime I'm holding him, he'll just lean back as far as he can go and giggle...
 He still doesn't love Mommy's kisses but I don't care! I love to give him kisses!!!



 This little boy is growing up so fast and this picture reminds me how much of a little boy he's turned into.

 These eyes!!! I love them.